Dorene Watkins, Co-Director of Turning Points Adolescent Workshop at the Center for Hearing and Communication, shares a letter from a parent who attended the workshop November 14, 2010. Many thanks to Dorene and Co-Director, Melody James, for bringing families together and creating such a meaningful and lasting experience. And thank you, Maria, for articulating so clearly the impact this experience has on the families who take part.
Dorene,
We have been attending the youth seminars for several years now but this time I want you to know that after those 5 hours we left changed. Myself, my husband and especially my son have gained priceless information, self awareness and emotional support. Since we live in a small town where my son attends a small school, we never have interaction with other families going through what we go through. When I sat and looked around I saw myself in so many parents faces. I think what was most important that, for the first time, my son saw himself in other kids and liked what he saw. He didn't run, deny or cover up. For the first time he looked as if he felt total acceptance without need of explanation. That experience, as brief as it was, became invaluable and has now set a tone to his life. He is still connecting with some of the kids from that special Sunday, and I hope it continues, since we have all realized that very few people "get it" and to find even a few makes life that much easier.
The guest speaker Cathy, was inspirational and, as my son said, awesome. This seminar will probably be our most momentous because it's the one where my son seemed to finally accept the fact that he is deaf and it's okay, as he interacted and enjoyed great kids just like himself. The Center for Hearing and Communication has recognized such an overlooked catagory that few HOH and deaf organizations address. I only wish there was something closer to be a part of, but luckily my son is getting older know and can organize his own social life, even if his friends live a bit farther away. They all realize it's worth it.
We thank you and all involved by not letting these kids feel like "solitaires." We hope to continue to be a part of the Center for Hearing and Communication for a long time.
Again thank you,
Maria Maggiulli, Robbie's mom
P.S. I'm sure he can't wait to be a panelist next year.
